That is what makes or breaks one. Every challenge is opportunity to reshape oneself. Re-emerge different, better. It has to be done with patience, with thought and reflection. Each challenge is an opportunity to find the values you truly hold. Love, compassion, empathy or loathing, revenge and distrust. It is easy to see which to pick when you are not under stress, exercising them under stress and challenge will test you. Make up your mind what you want to be, how you want to be and stick with it. These are my values, these I will hold.